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X§fpsS kuµcy¯nsâ Imcy¯n AXohPm{KX ]peÀ¯p¶hcmbncnçw Iuamc¡mÀ. ]uUdn«pw Is®gpXnbpw I®mSnç ap³]nÂkabw sNehgnçI, kuµcy hÀ²I hkvXp¡Ä¡v A\nb{´nXambn ]WwsNehgnçI, hkv{XhnXm\§fnse AanX {i² XpS§nb {]tXyIXIÄ Iuamc¡mcn Is­ìhcmw. Iuamc¡mcmb B¬æ«nIÄhsc ]pcnIw Idp¸nçIbpw NoæIbpw sNbvsXìhcmw. ]s£, c£nXm¡Ä ]et¸mgpw C¯cwImcy§Ä AwKoIcn¡m³ Ignbm¯hcmbncnçw. a¡Ä hgnsXäpIbmsW¶v AhÀ kwibnçIbpw ]cmXns¸Sm³ Bcw`nçIbpw A§s\bXv a¡fpambn `n¶X cq]s¸Sp¶Xnte¡v \bnçIbpw sN¿pw. `bs¸tS­ Imcy§fà Chsbmìw. Aåmbpkvam{XapÅ Imcy§fmWv Ch. ]IzX {]m]nç¶Xn\ëkcn¨v C¯cw kz`mh§fn amäwhêw. Bhiysa¦n æäs¸Sp¯msX kvt\l]qÀÆw D]tZin¡mhp¶XmWv. F¶m D]tZiw Iuamc¡mÀ¡v iÃyambn Aë`hs¸SmXncn¡m³ c£nXm¡Ä henb {i²sImSp¡Ww. B¬æ«nIÄ s]¬æ«nIfpsS thjhpw s]¬æ«nIÄ B¬æ«nIfpsS thjhpw Øncambn  kzoIcn¡m³ Xmåcyw ImWnçìsh¦n kvt\l]qÀÆapÅ D]tZi¯neqsS aänsbSp¡m³ {iant¡­Xpw amäap­mæ¶nsæn hnZKv[êsS klmbw tXtS­XpamWv.

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C¯cw hmÀ¯IÄ I­pwtI«pw X§fpsS a¡fpsS Imcy¯n amXm]nXm¡Ä am\knI tcmKnIsft¸mse s]êamdp¶ AhØbpw D­mIêXv. X§fpsS {i²bn s]«mepw {]iv\w k¦oÀWamæ¶Xphsc aXm]nXm¡fXv clkyam¡nshípw. A`nam\s¯ kw_Ôn¨ BæeXbmbncn¡mw ImcWw. X§fpsS \nb{´W¯nÂ\n¶v Imcy§Ä ]nSnhnSp¶Xphsc amXm]nXm¡Ä ]ckv]cw ]gnNmcn Imew Ign¡mdmWv ]Xnhv. A`nam\£Xw kw`hn¡msX X§fpsS {]iv\w Hì ]dbm³ t]mepw AhêsS ap¼n BêanÃm¯XmWv CXnë {][m\ ImcWw. ]ÅnIfn Øncamb JmZn/Camw/J¯o_v D­mæIbpw A`nam\w kwc£n¨pw bpàn]qÀÆhpw C¯cw hnjb§Ä ssIImcyw sN¿p¶Xn AhÀ {]m]vXêamsW¦n PmXnaXt`Zas\y kaql¯n\v AsXmê henb Bizmkambncnçw.  

aZy]m\hpw abçaêì]tbmKhpw XpS§mëÅ km[yX Cu Imebfhn IqSpXemWv. shdpsX Hê Xamit¡m aäpÅhêsS ap¼n t]êt\Smt\m Hs¡bmWv Bcw`nçIsb¦nepw ]n·mdm³ Ignbm¯hn[w Ah¡Snas¸SpIsb¶XmWv AXnsâ A\nhcyamb Zpc´^ew.  

Iuamc {]mb¯nepÅ Xsâ {]tXyIXIsfçdn¨pw X\nç Npäpw hehncn¨ncnç¶ A]ISIcamb sIWnIsfçdn¨pw amXm]nXm¡Ä a¡Ä¡v bYmkabw Adnhp ]IÀ¶v \evIWw. {]tXyIn¨v æSpw_s¯hn«v hnZqcØe§fnte¡v t]mæ¶hÀ¡v. ssZhlnXw ]men¨v c£nXm¡Äçw æSpw_¯nëw H¸w tNÀì\nÂç¶Xn¶v Ahsc kvt\l]qÀÆw t_m[ys¸Sp¯m³ c£nXm¡Ä IWniamb {i²]peÀ¯pIbpw thWw.

Iuamcw kpc£nXamIm³

1.      æ«nIÄ kz´amb hyànXzw Øm]ns¨Spç¶ Iuamc¯n c£nXm¡fpw Iuamc¡mêw X½nepÅ hntbmPn¸pIÄ¡v km[yXtbsdbmWv. CêIq«êw CXp a\knem¡n {]hÀ¯n¡Ww.

2.     kz´w D¯chmZn¯§fpsS Imcy¯n ssZhnI \nba§fpw IÂ]\Ifpw ]menç¶Xn Iuamc¡mêw c£nXm¡fpw IWnjX ]peÀ¯Ww.

3.     Iuamc¯n ssewKnI tNmZ\ IqSpXembncnçw. AXv a\knemçIbpw CÑ¡ëkrXambn {]h¯n¡mXncn¡m³ Iuamc¡mÀ kzbw {i²nçIbpw thWw.

4.     FXnÀ enwK¯n s]«htcmSv s]s«¶v ASp¯pt]mIm³ CSbps­¶v a\knem¡n, AëNnXamb _豈 cq]s¸SmXncn¡mëÅ {i²tbmsSbmbncn¡Ww ]ckv]cw CSs]Sp¶Xv.

5.     s]m§¨{]IS\hpw aäpÅhêsS klXm]w ]nSn¨p]ämëÅ {ia§fpw ]msS Dt]£n¡Ww.

6.     A]Izhpw AëNnXhpamb t{]a_Ô§Ä, aZy]m\w, abçaêì]tbmKw XpS§nbhbn AIs¸Sp¶Xmbn Xncn¨dnbpt¼mÄXs¶ AXn \nìw ]n·mdp¶Xn\v Iuamc¡mÀ kzbw {iançIbpw Bhiysa¦n hnizmktbmKycmb apXnÀ¶hêsS klmbw tXSpIbpw thWw.

7.     a¡Ä C¯cw {]iv\§fn AIs¸Sp¶Xmtbm AIs¸«Xmtbm Xncn¨dnªm kvt\l¸pÀÆhpw bpàn]qÀÆhpw Ahsc AXnÂ\n¶v ]n´ncn¸n¡m³ {iançIbpw km[nç¶nsæn hnZKv[ klmbw tXSpIbpw thWw.

8.     C¯cw kµÀ`§fn c£nXm¡Ä tZjyw ]nSn¨v {]hÀ¯nçItbm A`nam\£Xw `b¶v clkyam¡n shípItbm sN¿êXv.

9.     aXm]nXm¡Ä ]ckv]cw æäs¸Sp¯nbpw Ieln¨pw \nesImÅp¶Xv ]qÀ®ambpw HgnhmçIbpw Häs¡«mbn \nesImÅpIbpw thWw.

10.    æ«nIfpsS \nÊmchpw AhKWn¡mhp¶Xpamb sNdnb sNdnb hogvNIÄ aXm]nXm¡Ä ]ckv]cw ]èsh¨v k¦oÀ®am¡êXv.

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